Have you experienced when your friends say, “You’re not looking in great shape.”? Honestly, I often experience it. “You’re too thin, Risa! Come on, please eat a lot of food! Would you like be a living corpse?” I’m annoyed everytime I hear that. Yeah, I know that I’m thin. But I think I’m not too thin. I’m ideal. So, please don’t force me to eat too much! I hate it. Once more, everytime I work out, don’t ask me, ” Why do you work out? Your body has already been thin.” Oh, come on! This is my right. I have the right to decide to work out or not.
I’m asking you not to judge people according to the way they look. Appearance can fool you. Unfortunately, most of people still do that. Well, I admit I still often judge the people by their appearance, but I try to eliminate that although it’s difficult. Now, It’s not only people who make quick decisions about others based on their appearance, some animals do this too. Did you know peahens? That is a female peacock. During breeding season, they prefer male peacocks with lots of eyespots on their tail. Why’s that? Well. one theory is that a male peacock’s tail is a sign of his genes-part of the DNA in a cell that controls the physical development and behaviour of living creatures. It takes lots of energy to grow a big tail, and to carry it around, so only the strongest, healthiest males can afford to do this. By the way, this information has been exist on SIMAK UI 2016th test.
Based on research, the traits of men that attract women are a deep voice and a square jaw. Oh, come on, It doesn’t make sense. In my opinion, attractive man is a man who memorize 30 juz – Ya Allah, I hope I can have a hafidz husband -, has good attitude, knows Islam well, and can accompany me to the jannah. Amin.
Can you imagine that in the past men quite often to wear corsets? No, I can’t. Between 18th and 19th century, men quite often would wear corsets to enhance their physical appearance and display their status and rank. Sorry men, I don’t need your physical appearance. I just need your heart, your love.
But, come to think of it, the way we dress is still important. Just imagine a woman wearing not appropriate chlotes and a woman wearing good chlotes – I mean she wears hijab. Which one do you like? I’d like to say a woman wearing good chlotes of course. At lease, she knows Islam well than the other.
Well, sometimes we need to judge people by their appearance and sometimes we don’t need it. It depends on situations and the people whom we judge. I hope I can judge at a suitable time.
Banyuwangi, 03 Mei 2017
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